Hi Kevin,
I'm no expert. I'm not a degreed engineer. Take my opinions as just another point of view.
The oops fittings I installed seem to work pretty well, at least they have past leak testing. I will know more when I install the tank and make all the connections. As previously stated they are made of a light alloy and may not be as durable as if they were made out of a stronger material. At least they have flat surfaces machined into them so you can put a wrench on them when installing your plumbing fittings. The stock fittings don't have this and that is why they spin out.
If you were to look at the oops fitting instructions you will find that one uof the first steps is to drill out the old fitting. For the smaller (1/8" NPT) fittings you would be using a 9/16" drill. You can get at Lowes or Home Depot a brass "reducer" fitting that has 3/8"NPT male threads on the outside and 1/8" NPT female threads on the inside. This fitting can be screwed into the 9/16" hole that you drilled to take out the old fitting. The tapered NPT threads will screw into the plastic and give a good seal. I personally have not used the reducer fittings but others have. The oops fittings use an o-ring to make an effective seal and that requires that you carefully prepare the inner surface of the tank so that the inner o-ring can seat properly. I think it is much easier just to screw in a reducer fitting than to go through what I did with the oops fittings.
Having to take the fuel tank out to make these repairs was a big pain in the butt. In my opinion, it might be better to replace the fittings before you install the tank. On the other hand, many builders never have problems with the stock fittings. Mine never leaked, they spun out when I was trying to remove the plumbing fittings for the fuel quantity sight gauge (I updated to a Dynon system and didn't want a plastic tube running across my instrument panel). I am quite certain they would have leaked once I refilled the fuel tank.
Replacing the fittings is not such a big deal, whether you use the oops fittings or use reducer fittings. The major problem is getting access to the fittings. Working on your back under the fuel tank is not fun. I had to remove my tank to do the repairs, and that isn't much fun either.
If you are interested, I have some photos on my KitLogs page. Look on the right side of the page for the link titled "OOPS FITTINGS".
www.mykitlog.com/donbowenI hope this helps.
Don